"Sing Like No one is listening"

My daughter has a sign that reads, “Sing like no one is listening,” and while that’s a beautiful sentiment for fearless expression, it doesn’t quite fit when I’m performing in a coffee shop, restaurant  or pub. In those settings, my role isn’t to steal the spotlight or overpower the room like I’m headlining a concert. The folks there are catching up with friends, sharing stories, and savoring the moment. My music is meant to enhance their experience, not dominate it.

When I play, I aim for a warm, inviting sound—present but not intrusive. The goal is to create an atmosphere where live music feels like a delightful bonus. As people walk in, they might smile and say, “Oh, nice live music,” then settle in to chat with their friends. If a familiar song catches their ear, they might pause, sway, or even hum along before diving back into their conversation. I’m there to weave into the ambiance, adding a layer of joy and connection without demanding their full attention

My performance style is about balance—crafting a vibe that complements their time together, making the moment richer, not making it about me.